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In 2021 We Can Actually Talk About Plastic Surgery

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A few months ago, I had a lower-face and neck lift. Before the surgery, a nurse called to give me a list of what to bring for my two-night recovery in a hotel. Along with a baby toothbrush and arnica tablets, she said, “Don’t forget a headscarf and sunglasses so no one will recognize you.” I politely declined. First of all, since I’m a noncelebrity, no one would care. Second, I’d already told all my friends what I was about to do. Three of them were also about to undergo procedures, and together, we’d traded tips and not-for-prime-time selfies.

Welcome to the new beauty transparency. Botox, fillers, liposuction, and even plastic surgery are no longer shameful secrets; they’ve become common fodder for dinner parties, group texts—and even celebrity interviews. Cindy Crawford and Vanessa Williams have talked openly about using Botox; Katy Perry and Kaley Cuoco have copped to getting fillers; Chrissy Teigen and Cardi B have candidly discussed going under the knife; and last summer, designer Marc Jacobs posted his facelift recovery on Instagram. None of these celebrities are advocating for others to get procedures, but they are unapologetically owning their personal choices, pulling back the curtain on what was, for years, a taboo topic.

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The trend from shame to sharing may be part of a broader societal shift. Though it might seem counterintuitive, radical transparency about cosmetic work is not unlike women proudly flaunting their gray hair during quarantine. It’s all about creating your own narrative, particularly for Gen Xers and older millennials who are beginning to face the reality of aging and are redefining the rules. Any procedure is not only a deeply personal choice but also a medical decision that should not be entered into lightly. Whether women decide to opt in or opt out, though, most are rejecting the “Does she or doesn’t she?” construct as dated.

“COVID magnified the trend of people opening up about what they are doing, because it gave them time to reflect,” says Andrew Jacano, MD, the board-certified plastic surgeon who performed Jacobs’s surgery. “People want to live their truth. They are leaving their jobs and changing careers. They want to do the things that make them happy and share what they’re doing. They are looking for connection,” he says. “You have a right to be attractive and like the way you look. I think it’s so healthy to take away the shame factor. We are all affected by gravity as we age, and if people aren’t honest about what they are doing to look good, it can make the rest of us feel ‘less than.’ ”

Nadina Sieger, 50, a marketing executive at a global wellness company, is open about getting Botox, especially among the younger women she works with. “If someone compliments me on how I look, I feel like I’m doing them a service by telling them what I do. Creams and serums can only do so much. And it’s exhausting to pretend otherwise. Botox is just another tool in my makeup kit,” she says. “I don’t feel shame, and I don’t want to perpetuate a lie to younger women. It’s setting them up to feel bad about themselves. I wish someone had told me that earlier.”

“There’s been an evolution over time of awareness and acceptance.” – Robert Anolik, MD

Even before the pandemic, the growing ubiquity of cosmetic treatments, especially injectables, also contributed to a more open dialogue. After all, when even your dentist is offering Botox, the stigma is bound to lessen. “There’s been an evolution over time of awareness and acceptance,” says Robert Anolik, MD, a New York City dermatologist whose own Instagram feed is filled with well-known patients like Kelly Ripa and Olivia Palermo, who happily pose in his treatment room. “As procedures become more refined, and the results make you look refreshed and rejuvenated instead of deformed or inflated, it’s no longer embarrassing. All these procedures should be viewed as positive steps. As long as something can improve your quality of life, there’s no reason to be intimidated to talk about it with friends and family. You are addressing changes that happen as you age, not changing who you are.”

Howard Sobel, MD, a New York City dermatologist, has also seen a shift toward more openness. “I used to have a back door to sneak people in and out of,” he says. “Now people are coming out of hiding. If the last 20 months have taught us anything, it’s that we don’t know what may be next. Life is too short to care what other people think. People want to look their best; it’s no longer seen as selfish or privileged. Even people who don’t have a lot of money are saving up for treatments and telling their friends about it.”

Piret Aava, better known as the Eyebrow Doctor, documented her facelift and rhinoplasty on Instagram, chronicling day by swollen day for her more than 62,000 followers. Aava feels her openness did benefit others: “People post before-and-after pictures, but no one posts what happens in between. It helps people to know what to expect if you show them what it looks like before you’ve healed.” But, she adds, “I’m not telling other people what to do, and you shouldn’t be influenced to do something because you saw it on Instagram. I shared things I found useful for my recovery, and I still get thank-you notes [for that].”

Sometimes, now, I forget I even had surgery. I think about my face a lot less often than I did before. When I look at myself on Zoom, I’m no longer fixated on my jawline or neck, and I spend more energy concentrating on what’s being said in the meeting. I am, quite literally, more comfortable in my own skin. I recently had dinner with a woman I’d never met. When the conversation moved to changes we’d made over the last year, I told her about my surgery. She looked at me, surprised, and told me she never would have guessed if I hadn’t mentioned it. She asked me a few questions about the procedure and how I felt after it. “More confident,” I told her. “I had something that was bothering me—and I fixed it.” She nodded in solidarity, and we moved on.

This article will appear in the December 2021/January 2022 issue of ELLE.

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Jennifer Lopez Joined Ben Affleck In L.A. With Kids For Thanksgiving

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On Wednesday night, Jennifer Lopez arrived in Los Angeles with her 13-year-old twins Max and Emme. The family was likely there to join Lopez’s boyfriend, Ben Affleck, for the Thanksgiving holiday. Lopez recently returned from the much colder climate of British Columbia, Canada, where she was filming her latest project, The Mother.

J. Lo touched down in her private jet wearing a teddy fur coat from Coach’s Autumn/Winter 2019 collection, and a pair of Ugg boots. Classic airplane outfit, celebrity style. Lopez and Affleck originally dated in 2002 and broke up in 2004. Their romance was rekindled earlier this year, soon after Lopez ended her relationship with baseball player Alex Rodriguez. The new couple went official in July, while celebrating Lopez’s 52nd birthday abroad.

Affleck’s most recent relationship with Ana de Armas ended in January after about a year together. He had divorced ex-wife Jennifer Garner in 2015 after being married for almost a decade. Garner and Affleck had three daughters, Violet, Seraphina, and Sam.

Before traveling back to the U.S., Lopez posted a story to Instagram Reels about how grateful she was to be headed home.

“Hey everybody, it’s my last day here shooting on The Mother out in Smithers in the snow, it’s been beautiful, but tonight I’m on my way home,” she said, as she walked through the wild landscape in a black coat and beanie.

“I’m so excited for Thanksgiving! I hope everybody has an amazing weekend with their families and their loved ones, there’s so much to be grateful for this year. I’m on my way!”

This is the first major holiday of the year since Lopez and Affleck reunited, so it’s likely to be a big one for both families.

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Everlane’s Black Friday Sale is Packed With Winter Essentials

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This is not a drill: Everlane just kicked off its Black Friday sale. Now through Monday, November 29, the direct-to-consumer brand is offering 20 to 40% off its cozy sweaters, minimalist activewear, and popular jeans. If you’re not super familiar with Everlane, let me spell it out for you: this is a big deal.

The e-tailer might be known for making sustainable, ethically made clothes and accessories at a fair, affordable price, but Everlane rarely has sales beyond its Choose What You Pay section. So, if you want to stock up on cute basics for less, now’s your time to shop.

And, in true Everlane fashion, the brand is taking this opportunity to give back. Everlane is partnering with Rodale Institute and help U.S. farmers transition their farmland to regenerative organic—and donating $15 per order to the cause. A great sale that gives back? I’m sold.

But, hurry! These deals are going to sell out fast, so you won’t want to waste any time filling your e-cart.

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1

The Cloud Turtleneck

$150 $105 (30% off)

Sweater weather is officially here, so why not pick up a few fresh layers? This turtleneck is the S’s: snuggly, stylish, and on sale. 

2

The Authentic Stretch High-Rise Skinny Jeans

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$78 $58 (25% off)

Looking for a great pair of jeans, minus the markup? Everlane’s classic skinny style is not only super stretchy, but it’ll look good with everything from chunky sweaters to silky blouses.

3

The ReNew Teddy Slippers

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$65 $39 (40% off)

Why limit the shearling trend to the upper half of your body? These plush slippers will give even your most worn-in sweats a stylish edge.

4

The Chunky Cardigan

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$110 $77 (30% off)

Sure, this may not be the cardigan Taylor Swift was talking about. But, with an exaggerated collar and ribbed finish, this style would definitely score top marks from the singer herself. 

5

The Canvas Utility Boots

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$115 $59 (40% off)

Brave the cold weather in style with Everlane’s chic boots. The canvas uppers and thick sole make these an ideal, all-weather option.

6

The Lofty-Knit Henley

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$150 $105 (30% off)

Made with a nubby blend of merino wool, alpaca, and recycled nylon, this henley is perfect for a cozy night in, yet stylish enough to wear in public.

7

The Perform Bike Shorts

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$45 $22 (51% off)

No, you can never have too many stretchy pants. Everlane’s bike shorts ooze major Lady Di vibes — for under $25, no less.

8

The ReLeather Court Sneakers

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$110 $66 (40% off)

Made with recycled leather, these refresh sneakers will serve up major curb appeal — and Mother Nature’s seal of approval. 

9

The Field Dress

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$100 $60 (40% off)

Found: a fun, flouncy frock you can wear year-round. For a wintry take, pair with opaque tights and your favorite chunky boots.

10

The Cozy-Stretch Wide-Leg Sweatpants

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$150 $75 (50% off)

With a straight-legged silhouette and wool material, it’s safe to say these are the chicest sweatpants we’ve ever seen. To sweeten an already enticing offer, this pair is half off.

11

The Organic Cotton Flannel Popover

$80 $56 (30% off)

Everlane reimagined the traditional flannel with a cropped silhouette, voluminous sleeves, and a slew of minimalist colors.

12

The Studio Bag

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$275 $192 (30% off)

Large enough to fit all your essentials, but not too big that it’ll weigh you down, Everlane’s Studio Bag is the perfect everyday purse.

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The ReNew Long Liner

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$158 $118 (25% off)

House Stark was right: winter really is coming. Made with recycled materials, this liner is a great layering piece that’s considerably chicer than the yesteryear’s Michelin Man-worthy parkas.

14

The Felted Merino Beanie

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$50 $30 (40% off)

All set on clothes? Pick up this cheery beanie, which is 40% off its original price.

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29 Winter Fragrances That Exude Main Character Energy

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