Welcome to Shelf Life, ELLE.com’s books column, in which authors share their most memorable reads. Whether you’re on the hunt for a book to console you, move you profoundly, or make you laugh, consider a recommendation from the writers in our series, who, like you (since you’re here), love books. Perhaps one of their favorite titles will become one of yours, too.
In Matrix (Riverhead) out this week, Lauren Groff transports us—and protagonist Marie de France—to a destitute abbey in 12th-century England where she becomes prioress. It’s the fourth novel for the NYT-bestselling author and two-time National Book Award finalist (for story collection Florida and novel Fates and Furies), a National Book Critics Circle winner and Barack Obama’s favorite book of 2015.
The Cooperstown, New York-raised, Gainesville, Florida-based author, who might have become a poet, was a Guggenheim fellow and Granta Best of Young American Novelists, studied under Lorrie Moore when pursuing her MFA in fiction at the University of Wisconsin-Madison, has two sons and a dog named Olive, escapes to a converted barn at her parents’ farm in New Hampshire, tries to read 300 books in a year, lived in Nantes, France, was the 7 of Pentacles card in a tarot deck, buys questionable things on Etsy, considered Ernest Hemingway pin-up-worthy at 12, and earned 14 high school varsity letters. (She and her husband met on the crew team at Amherst; her sister is Olympic triathlete Sarah True.)
Likes: Foreign television/movies (Italian, Danish, French); Times New Roman font, Vegan Gator burgers, opera, the smell of ink and paper (hence writing drafts in longhand). Dislikes: sesame (allergy), everlasting roses. Below, some things meant to endure.
The book that…
…made me weep uncontrollably:
If I want to have a cathartic weep, I’ll take Jane Austen’s Persuasion into the bathtub and sob uncontrollably when I get to Captain Wentworth’s letter.
…I recommend over and over again:
I think Anne Carson is one of the great living geniuses; I’ve recommended Autobiography of Red at least a hundred times, and every single person I’ve talked into reading it has been blown away.
…shaped my worldview:
I love novels that make the reader deeply, uncomfortably complicit with the immorality or evils being described, or that reveal the hypocrisy of the reader’s own weak good intentions. I’m currently rereading Roberto Bolaño’s masterpiece 2666, and it’s breaking me in two, again.
…I swear I’ll finish one day:
I’ve been joyously reading Robert Burton’s majestic The Anatomy of Melancholy for two decades now, picking it up when I need it, and putting it down again for years. Someday, I will get to the end and have to start all over again.
…currently sits on my nightstand:
I’m wild to get through my long list of dutiful reading so that I can get to the surely deeply pleasurable brand-new story collection, Venita Blackburn’s How to Wrestle a Girl.
…I’d pass on to my kid:
To celebrate a huge event in my life, I bought a very fine early edition of Virginia Woolf’s Between the Acts from the great London antiquarian bookstore The Second Shelf. It remains to be seen which of my boys will appreciate it most. The other one will get a signed copy of Raise High the Roof Beam, Carpenters by J.D. Salinger, which my father-in-law gave to me.
Olga Takarczuk’s Drive Your Plow Over the Bones of the Dead has a spectacular title, and it comes from William Blake’s “Proverbs of Hell.”
…should be on every college syllabus:
No single book should be on every college syllabus, but I do think that Jean Toomer’s 1923 novel Cane is woefully undertaught, and is an utterly astonishing and structurally complex book about Black life in America.
…I brought on a momentous trip:
I was the big jerk who brought David Foster Wallace’s Infinite Jest on my senior year spring break to Key West in college, which was both insufferable, but also, weirdly, the perfect spring break book.
…makes me feel seen:
I don’t think I read books to be able to feel seen, or recognized, but maybe to try to see other people better. A Girl is a Half-Formed Thing by Eimear McBride showed, with extreme particularity, the stream-of-consciousness of a character who still, years later, lives as a voice in my head.
…features the most beautiful book jacket:
I’m obsessed with the clean and elegant covers of my old French Gallimard covers, and I think that, among modern publishers, Fitzcarraldo Editions hits that same super-minimalist note. Of their books, my favorite may be Kate Briggs’s This Little Art.
…I could only have discovered at…:
Harvard bookstore has a beautiful warehouse sale, where I often buy very strange books that end up delighting me. Recently, I bought T.J. Clark’s The Sight of Death, which is an experiment in what happens when Clark goes to see the same painting by Poussin day after day. In the middle of the pandemic, stuck in the same place and same daily routines with the same three members of my family, I found it wildly moving.
…I’d want signed by the author:
Since George Eliot’s Middlemarch is my favorite book, a copy signed by her would be a holy relic to me. I’d set up a whole altar.
…I asked for as a kid:
I was accidentally given Clan of the Cave Bear by Jean M. Auel as a kid and was so astonished by the sex in it that I asked for all of the other books in the series. These are deeply problematic books, overtly racist, and would never be published today, for good reason, but some of the sex scenes were extremely hot.
Bonus question: If I could live in any library or bookstore in the world, it would be:
About a month ago, I returned from a residency in a 15th-century castle in Umbria, Italy called Civitella Ranieri, where my bedroom was right off a library filled with the thousands of books that Mark Strand bequeathed when he died. I still have dreams that I’m in that tall white room, surrounded by all that poetry and am always a little disappointed to wake up into my own life again.
Read Lauren Groff’s Picks
Persuasion
Jane Austen bookshop.org
$6.44
Autobiography of Red
Anne Carson bookshop.org
$16.56
2666
Roberto Bolaño bookshop.org
$24.84
The Anatomy of Melancholy
Robert Burton bookshop.org
$27.55
How to Wrestle a Girl
Venita Blackburn bookshop.org
$14.72
Between the Acts
Virginia Woolf bookshop.org
$16.95
Raise High the Roof Beam, Carpenters
J.D. Salinger bookshop.org
$9.19
The Netanyahus
Joshua Cohen bookshop.org
$15.59
Drive Your Plow Over the Bones of the Dead
Olga Takarczuk bookshop.org
$15.64
Cane
Jean Toomer bookshop.org
$14.67
Infinite Jest
David Foster Wallace bookshop.org
$18.40
A Girl Is a Half-Formed Thing
Eimear McBride bookshop.org
$15.64
The Sight of Death
T.J. Clark bookshop.org
$25.00
Middlemarch
George Eliot bookshop.org
$15.64
The Clan of the Cave Bear
Jean M. Auel bookshop.org
$8.27
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On Wednesday night, Jennifer Lopez arrived in Los Angeles with her 13-year-old twins Max and Emme. The family was likely there to join Lopez’s boyfriend, Ben Affleck, for the Thanksgiving holiday. Lopez recently returned from the much colder climate of British Columbia, Canada, where she was filming her latest project, The Mother.
J. Lo touched down in her private jet wearing a teddy fur coat from Coach’s Autumn/Winter 2019 collection, and a pair of Ugg boots. Classic airplane outfit, celebrity style. Lopez and Affleck originally dated in 2002 and broke up in 2004. Their romance was rekindled earlier this year, soon after Lopez ended her relationship with baseball player Alex Rodriguez. The new couple went official in July, while celebrating Lopez’s 52nd birthday abroad.
Affleck’s most recent relationship with Ana de Armas ended in January after about a year together. He had divorced ex-wife Jennifer Garner in 2015 after being married for almost a decade. Garner and Affleck had three daughters, Violet, Seraphina, and Sam.
Before traveling back to the U.S., Lopez posted a story to Instagram Reels about how grateful she was to be headed home.
“Hey everybody, it’s my last day here shooting on The Mother out in Smithers in the snow, it’s been beautiful, but tonight I’m on my way home,” she said, as she walked through the wild landscape in a black coat and beanie.
“I’m so excited for Thanksgiving! I hope everybody has an amazing weekend with their families and their loved ones, there’s so much to be grateful for this year. I’m on my way!”
This is the first major holiday of the year since Lopez and Affleck reunited, so it’s likely to be a big one for both families.
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This is not a drill: Everlane just kicked off its Black Friday sale. Now through Monday, November 29, the direct-to-consumer brand is offering 20 to 40% off its cozy sweaters, minimalist activewear, and popular jeans. If you’re not super familiar with Everlane, let me spell it out for you: this is a big deal.
The e-tailer might be known for making sustainable, ethically made clothes and accessories at a fair, affordable price, but Everlane rarely has sales beyond its Choose What You Pay section. So, if you want to stock up on cute basics for less, now’s your time to shop.
And, in true Everlane fashion, the brand is taking this opportunity to give back. Everlane is partnering with Rodale Institute and help U.S. farmers transition their farmland to regenerative organic—and donating $15 per order to the cause. A great sale that gives back? I’m sold.
But, hurry! These deals are going to sell out fast, so you won’t want to waste any time filling your e-cart.
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1
The Cloud Turtleneck
$150 $105 (30% off)
Sweater weather is officially here, so why not pick up a few fresh layers? This turtleneck is the S’s: snuggly, stylish, and on sale.
2
The Authentic Stretch High-Rise Skinny Jeans
everlane
$78 $58 (25% off)
Looking for a great pair of jeans, minus the markup? Everlane’s classic skinny style is not only super stretchy, but it’ll look good with everything from chunky sweaters to silky blouses.
3
The ReNew Teddy Slippers
everlane
$65 $39 (40% off)
Why limit the shearling trend to the upper half of your body? These plush slippers will give even your most worn-in sweats a stylish edge.
4
The Chunky Cardigan
everlane
$110 $77 (30% off)
Sure, this may not be the cardigan Taylor Swift was talking about. But, with an exaggerated collar and ribbed finish, this style would definitely score top marks from the singer herself.
5
The Canvas Utility Boots
everlane
$115 $59 (40% off)
Brave the cold weather in style with Everlane’s chic boots. The canvas uppers and thick sole make these an ideal, all-weather option.
6
The Lofty-Knit Henley
everlane
$150 $105 (30% off)
Made with a nubby blend of merino wool, alpaca, and recycled nylon, this henley is perfect for a cozy night in, yet stylish enough to wear in public.
7
The Perform Bike Shorts
everlane
$45 $22 (51% off)
No, you can never have too many stretchy pants. Everlane’s bike shorts ooze major Lady Di vibes — for under $25, no less.
8
The ReLeather Court Sneakers
everlane
$110 $66 (40% off)
Made with recycled leather, these refresh sneakers will serve up major curb appeal — and Mother Nature’s seal of approval.
9
The Field Dress
everlane
$100 $60 (40% off)
Found: a fun, flouncy frock you can wear year-round. For a wintry take, pair with opaque tights and your favorite chunky boots.
10
The Cozy-Stretch Wide-Leg Sweatpants
everlane
$150 $75 (50% off)
With a straight-legged silhouette and wool material, it’s safe to say these are the chicest sweatpants we’ve ever seen. To sweeten an already enticing offer, this pair is half off.
11
The Organic Cotton Flannel Popover
$80 $56 (30% off)
Everlane reimagined the traditional flannel with a cropped silhouette, voluminous sleeves, and a slew of minimalist colors.
12
The Studio Bag
everlane
$275 $192 (30% off)
Large enough to fit all your essentials, but not too big that it’ll weigh you down, Everlane’s Studio Bag is the perfect everyday purse.
13
The ReNew Long Liner
everlane
$158 $118 (25% off)
House Stark was right: winter really is coming. Made with recycled materials, this liner is a great layering piece that’s considerably chicer than the yesteryear’s Michelin Man-worthy parkas.
14
The Felted Merino Beanie
everlane
$50 $30 (40% off)
All set on clothes? Pick up this cheery beanie, which is 40% off its original price.
Kelsey Mulvey Kelsey Mulvey is a freelance lifestyle journalist, who covers shopping and deals for Marie Claire, Women’s Health, and Men’s Health, among others.
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