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Tarana Burke on Kiese Laymon, Imani Perry, and the Choreopoem That Made Her Feel Seen

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Welcome to Shelf Life, ELLE.com’s books column, in which authors share their most memorable reads. Whether you’re on the hunt for a book to console you, move you profoundly, or make you laugh, consider a recommendation from the writers in our series, who, like you (since you’re here), love books. Perhaps one of their favorite titles will become one of yours, too.

Unbound: My Story of Liberation and the Birth of the Me Too Movement

Tarana Burke has already released a book this year—the NYT-bestselling anthology You Are Your Best Thing co-edited by Brené Brown. Next month comes an even more personal work, her memoir Unbound (Flatiron: An Oprah Book), two days after she turns 48. The founder of the Me Too movement (started in 2006; amplified by Alyssa Milano in 2017) and executive director of the Me Too organization has long fought for the end of sexual violence with the empowerment and healing of survivors paramount. Earlier this year, the organization, along with the National Women’s Law Center and Time’s Up, launched We, As Ourselves, focusing on Black survivors.

The activist, who started community organizing at 14 and organized around the Central Park Five at 16, was a Time Person of the Year and on its list of 100 Most Influential People (Gabrielle Union wrote her tribute), won the Sydney Peace Prize and the Ridenhour Courage Prize, and recently signed a production deal with CBS Studios to develop content with her partner at Field/House Productions, Mervyn Marcano.

The mother of an artist/filmmaker daughter, she was a consultant on Ava DuVernay’s Selma, counts Dr. Maya Angelou as a personal hero, took the TED stage, has giant posters of Diana Ross movies in her house, used to be a fashion blogger (“Yes, She Slays”), had her engagement photos taken on High Bridge in the Bronx neighborhood where she and her fiance grew up (the July 2020 wedding was postponed due to the pandemic), shared the mic of Glennon Doyle, was a middle school track star, took Swahili lessons in daycare, loves boots, and likes spending time in her garden. Let’s dig into her picks.

The book that…

…helped me through a breakup:

Their Eyes Were Watching God, by Zora Neale Hurston. Janie’s resilience was a powerful lesson in choosing yourself.

…made me weep uncontrollably:

The Color Purple, by Alice Walker. I mean, for obvious reasons.

…I recommend over and over again:

The Gifts of Imperfection, by Brené Brown. This book validated what I saw in my life and work about how shame can crush us.

…made me feel seen:

For Colored Girls Who Have Considered Suicide/When the Rainbow is Enuf, by Ntozake Shange. I have known, met or been every one of the women in this choreopoem. It amplifies the humanity of Black women unlike anything I have ever encountered.

…made me rethink a long-held belief:

One Drop, by Yaba Blay. Never thought about the privilege of not having to identify as Black.

…I read in one sitting, it was that good:

Sugar, by Bernice L. McFadden. This book is so engaging and beautiful and intriguing and satisfying that I could not put it down.

…I’d gift to a new graduate:

Wisdom from the Four Agreements, by Don Miguel Ruiz. It is a wonderful grounding before going out in the world.

…made me laugh out loud:

Meaty. Samantha Irby is a comedic and life genius. Period.

…I last bought:

Somebody’s Daughter, by Ashley C. Ford. I was so excited to devour this book. She is such a beautiful writer!

…has the best title:

Singin’ and Swingin’ and Gettin’ Merry Like Christmas, by Maya Angelou. I read this title on my mom’s shelf for years. It reads like a song lyric.

…should be on every college syllabus:

How to Slowly Kill Yourself and Others in America. Kiese Laymon is unrelenting in his truth telling. We are all the better for it.

…everyone should read:

The Body Keeps the Score, by Bessel van der Kolk, MD. It will advance your healing work or help you to understand why you need it.

…fills me with hope:

Untamed. Glennon [Doyle] has a way of making things make sense and not seem as terrible.

…surprised me:

More Beautiful and More Terrible. Imani Perry is one of the greatest thinkers of our time, and I thought I wouldn’t understand this work but it is completely accessible and necessary reading.

…I’d want signed by the author:

The Bluest Eye, by Toni Morrison. Because…Toni Morrison.

Bonus question:

If I could live in any library or bookstore in the world, it would be: Stony Island Arts Bank in Chicago. It’s so gorgeous and haunting. It draws you in to all of the nooks and crannies.

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Jennifer Lopez Joined Ben Affleck In L.A. With Kids For Thanksgiving

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On Wednesday night, Jennifer Lopez arrived in Los Angeles with her 13-year-old twins Max and Emme. The family was likely there to join Lopez’s boyfriend, Ben Affleck, for the Thanksgiving holiday. Lopez recently returned from the much colder climate of British Columbia, Canada, where she was filming her latest project, The Mother.

J. Lo touched down in her private jet wearing a teddy fur coat from Coach’s Autumn/Winter 2019 collection, and a pair of Ugg boots. Classic airplane outfit, celebrity style. Lopez and Affleck originally dated in 2002 and broke up in 2004. Their romance was rekindled earlier this year, soon after Lopez ended her relationship with baseball player Alex Rodriguez. The new couple went official in July, while celebrating Lopez’s 52nd birthday abroad.

Affleck’s most recent relationship with Ana de Armas ended in January after about a year together. He had divorced ex-wife Jennifer Garner in 2015 after being married for almost a decade. Garner and Affleck had three daughters, Violet, Seraphina, and Sam.

Before traveling back to the U.S., Lopez posted a story to Instagram Reels about how grateful she was to be headed home.

“Hey everybody, it’s my last day here shooting on The Mother out in Smithers in the snow, it’s been beautiful, but tonight I’m on my way home,” she said, as she walked through the wild landscape in a black coat and beanie.

“I’m so excited for Thanksgiving! I hope everybody has an amazing weekend with their families and their loved ones, there’s so much to be grateful for this year. I’m on my way!”

This is the first major holiday of the year since Lopez and Affleck reunited, so it’s likely to be a big one for both families.

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Everlane’s Black Friday Sale is Packed With Winter Essentials

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This is not a drill: Everlane just kicked off its Black Friday sale. Now through Monday, November 29, the direct-to-consumer brand is offering 20 to 40% off its cozy sweaters, minimalist activewear, and popular jeans. If you’re not super familiar with Everlane, let me spell it out for you: this is a big deal.

The e-tailer might be known for making sustainable, ethically made clothes and accessories at a fair, affordable price, but Everlane rarely has sales beyond its Choose What You Pay section. So, if you want to stock up on cute basics for less, now’s your time to shop.

And, in true Everlane fashion, the brand is taking this opportunity to give back. Everlane is partnering with Rodale Institute and help U.S. farmers transition their farmland to regenerative organic—and donating $15 per order to the cause. A great sale that gives back? I’m sold.

But, hurry! These deals are going to sell out fast, so you won’t want to waste any time filling your e-cart.

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1

The Cloud Turtleneck

$150 $105 (30% off)

Sweater weather is officially here, so why not pick up a few fresh layers? This turtleneck is the S’s: snuggly, stylish, and on sale. 

2

The Authentic Stretch High-Rise Skinny Jeans

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$78 $58 (25% off)

Looking for a great pair of jeans, minus the markup? Everlane’s classic skinny style is not only super stretchy, but it’ll look good with everything from chunky sweaters to silky blouses.

3

The ReNew Teddy Slippers

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$65 $39 (40% off)

Why limit the shearling trend to the upper half of your body? These plush slippers will give even your most worn-in sweats a stylish edge.

4

The Chunky Cardigan

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$110 $77 (30% off)

Sure, this may not be the cardigan Taylor Swift was talking about. But, with an exaggerated collar and ribbed finish, this style would definitely score top marks from the singer herself. 

5

The Canvas Utility Boots

everlane

$115 $59 (40% off)

Brave the cold weather in style with Everlane’s chic boots. The canvas uppers and thick sole make these an ideal, all-weather option.

6

The Lofty-Knit Henley

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$150 $105 (30% off)

Made with a nubby blend of merino wool, alpaca, and recycled nylon, this henley is perfect for a cozy night in, yet stylish enough to wear in public.

7

The Perform Bike Shorts

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$45 $22 (51% off)

No, you can never have too many stretchy pants. Everlane’s bike shorts ooze major Lady Di vibes — for under $25, no less.

8

The ReLeather Court Sneakers

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$110 $66 (40% off)

Made with recycled leather, these refresh sneakers will serve up major curb appeal — and Mother Nature’s seal of approval. 

9

The Field Dress

everlane

$100 $60 (40% off)

Found: a fun, flouncy frock you can wear year-round. For a wintry take, pair with opaque tights and your favorite chunky boots.

10

The Cozy-Stretch Wide-Leg Sweatpants

everlane

$150 $75 (50% off)

With a straight-legged silhouette and wool material, it’s safe to say these are the chicest sweatpants we’ve ever seen. To sweeten an already enticing offer, this pair is half off.

11

The Organic Cotton Flannel Popover

$80 $56 (30% off)

Everlane reimagined the traditional flannel with a cropped silhouette, voluminous sleeves, and a slew of minimalist colors.

12

The Studio Bag

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$275 $192 (30% off)

Large enough to fit all your essentials, but not too big that it’ll weigh you down, Everlane’s Studio Bag is the perfect everyday purse.

13

The ReNew Long Liner

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$158 $118 (25% off)

House Stark was right: winter really is coming. Made with recycled materials, this liner is a great layering piece that’s considerably chicer than the yesteryear’s Michelin Man-worthy parkas.

14

The Felted Merino Beanie

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$50 $30 (40% off)

All set on clothes? Pick up this cheery beanie, which is 40% off its original price.

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29 Winter Fragrances That Exude Main Character Energy

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